Hope everyone had a BLESSED Christmas with their loved ones..... Here are some of our pictures to share ...It was a silent but joyful Christmas...( Again, i didnt get to download my pictures so I ran out of space...) but enough to share it with you.....
Will blog some later.....
It was a great weekend..!! After picking up Destiny at her friends house and helping dad work on his car.. We went to Chicago and stayed at my in-laws house.. You can really tell that they were sooo excited...They prepared sooo much food for us...My mother in laws made some leche flan in the middle of the night.. We sang and dance all night..Kalea and Des was helping them put some ornaments to their tree.. You can really tell that kids do give sooo much joy in the house..... It was sooo nice...I miss those days that you just go to your parents house and they just take care of you and feed you all day..lol... When we woke up ( Sunday Morning)... fresh brewed coffee was ready with filipino fried rice, sausage and more food...Oh Lordy Lord!!!..We left Kai there that morning but we had to wait for my in-laws coz they also went to their hhome church ... We were teasing them that we'll be moving with them next month..lolz... My hubby and i talked about it that we're gonna try our best to stay there at least twice a month on Sat.night......Anyways, enjoy the pictures..
Ciao!
Morning! just sharing you the pictures we took last night from our company's Christmas Party... It was sooo fun. Except that my honey wasn't able to join us this year... He was supposed to go to San Jose California for meeting but he cancelled his flight on Friday morning and I coudn't change my RSVP anymore for two people.... But anyways, I had a great time with my co-workers this year... We chat, ate and dance together... Im not saying that I will not enjoy if my hubby was there but it's different because I was able to dance and chat with my co workers and some people from different department... Anyways, the dinner was good and I got home around 10...( still early..right..lol) ..And I also won the limbo dance... ( Wheeww! I thought I was gonna break my back...ha ha ha)... Anyways, I'll blog more later.. I have to help my hubby work on his car... We just dropped off Destiny to her friend's house..Their working on Christmas cards and their going to Retirement home.We were gonna go but we only have one car.. And we have to fix the other one..Just like Love said on her blog that it's so nice to know that our kids are slowly getting the true meaning of Christmas..Just couple of weeks ago my husband, Destiny and I are discussing that we have two people that are very close dearly to our hearts that we want to help not only this Christmas but Lords willing that we can help them every month. It maybe something small but anything is possible with God....
Okay---- I'll blog more later.... Enjoy the rest of your weekend... Here's the pix from last nite....
All Praises to you , O Lord!
Congrats to my daughter Destiny for being part of the Newspaper staff Dec 2007 at her school...We love you Ate Des!!! Keep up the good work
Happy Birthday Princess Kalea Star.. Born on November 30, 2006 at 4:39AM -- Northwest Community Hospital....Thank you Lord for our little Kalea.. She gives sooo much joy and love in our family.. Her sister Destiny loves her so much... We thank you Lord for our children....
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU ALL! for coming to our Princess Kalea's 1st Magical Birthday Party.... Thank you all for the gifts, your presence, your calls/text, your help,support and prayers...... and to those of you that weren't able to make it....We missed you...
I thought of blogging before I go to bed. I just want to give Praises and Thanks to Our Dear Father for HIS faithfulness. I thank you Lord for the opportunities you have give me to minister to others especially to my one and only brother. I had a wonderful talk with my brother today, Lord and I know that you were the one that speak to him. Thank yourd Lord for giving me that strenght and wisdom to talk to my brother. Lord you know that I have been praying for him and the rest of my family. What a wonderful feeling it gives me to be used by you God. Lord, my only prayer right now is that you continue to use me on a daily basis Father. I will continue to pray Lord that my family may find you and turn to you. That you are the only answer in their lives. Open their hearts Lord. I believe Lord that you changes people and you changes things. I pray Lord for all my sisters and brothers. For each and every family member in their households. I pray for peace, love and joy in their homes. Thank you Lord that you are not leaving us on our own. You are always with us.I love you Lord! Goodnite.
This is my prayer Lord.
In your Name,
Char =)
Wednesday night
We went to my in-laws house and had dinner there. We did nothing but laugh all night ‘coz the chocolate I was eating …It melt so fast in my mouth and I was talking and laughing at the same time and I didn’t realize that I was already drooling all over my honey’s polo shirt…. I thought that was funny…
Thursday
Aaaahh!!!! I can feel the winter already. Lolzz… Destiny went to our room early and played with Kai and they both jumped to our bed. It feels so good just to lay down all day with your loved ones. =) .The 3 of us shared what we were thankful for…it was so nice to hear all the blessings that God has given us… We all got ready.... We were planning to go to Richard Walker for brunch but I know that it was going to be too crowded so we ended up at IHOP. Stayed there till lunch… Late afternoon – Destiny wanted us to go to the hospital with Dad…So; we went to dr op him off. Went to meet his co workers and walked around at the Hospital… Dad needed to work one holiday. So he picked Thanksgiving…. So he can be with us Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Years Eve and New Years Day… We went home and add more Christmas Decorations…. Waiting for my family to pick us up… We had thanksgiving dinner at my cousin Eugene’s house… It feels so different..… I really felt God’s work in my families’ lives… I feel more comfortable with my dad’s side… I feel the love this time…. Thank you Lord!!!…
As soon as we got home… The kids and I put on our pajamas and went to pick up dad…. We watched the movie “ Nativity”. It’s a good movie to watch with your family…
Friday
I was planning to go shopping but my little one had a fever for 2 hours. I got so worried again. I laid hands all over her body and prayed… Thank God and her fever didn’t continue. But since I know that she wasn’t feeling well. I just decide to stay home with my kids. Thank God I did. It was sooo relaxing. Just eating, watching and play with them =) …
Saturday
Des and I did some Birthday shopping for Kalea…didn’t really do much today
Sunday
We dropped off Kai to mommy so she can get some more rest before we went to church… Today was different…. I really can’t type the detail but let me just say that God is so wonderful. He knows what were going through as a church. He knows that were hurting, were struggling and we need him… My hubby, bro.martin and sister marge ..We all ended up staying till 6pm. We just had heart to heart talk, great sharing from one another and at the end we held hands, and we all said our prayers. It was so powerful. We felt HIM. I know that He was there, comforting us, hugging us…I know that God knows our every tear. Thank you Lord for being so kind and the patience that you have given us. We lift everything up to you Lord. Just like what God told Moses that it wouldn’t be easy but He will be with him. I know that we all feel insecure at times. But we don’t have to depend on our own strength. Because God had promised to be with us, just as he was with Moses. When God asks us to do something, I know that HE will give us the ability and the resources to do it. Because ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD!
GOD IS ALWAYS GOOD!
Good Morning Everyone,
Hope you all had a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving.
Here's the picture for now... I will blog later today... Enjoy
It's almost the end of the day.. Let me just do a short blog before I go home. i like to do it here at work. ( I like the computer..lolz)...
Friday
We just stayed home, ordered some food and rented some movies to watch. Didn't really do anything but just trying to prepare for this coming week. Destiny wanted me to check the mail cuz she was waiting for her report card... And yup! we got it... I just want to say " Congrats to Destiny".. She's in High Honor Roll for this semester... Keep up the Good Work Des! We are so proud of you =)
Saturday
Woke up early--- Went to Dunkin Donuts .. Bought some breakfast for my father in law and Vince.. They were trying to finish the office last Saturday ( should be done this week). After the office.. Will, the kids and I went to Oriental Buffet for lunch...And it's funny... First time, we actually gave Kai her plate and fork.. Oh goodness! she was sooo cute and excited that she made a big mess under the table... She ate so much that day...ha ha ha...
After lunch -- we went to Michael's to buy Destiny's project... And here I am so excited about putting my Christmas tree... I ended buying stuff for the house... Destiny wanted to do the bow for the tree.. So, I let her and didn't really turn out the way we want it to.. But we still used some of it and the rest will just use it for the gift.. But hey, I am so proud of her for even trying 'cuz I can't even do that myself..ha ha ha... I feel bad cuz It was also Lala
s 7th birthday and we didn't get to go.. Had to do so many things.. Plus my parents came over and brought some Popeye's for us...They didn't leave till 10:30PM.. So, it was too late for us to go.. Happy birthday La! We love you...
Sunday
Thanksgiving Celebration at church.. Pastor Renato and his family came ... We were so happy to see all of them there... We ordered Boston Market ( and I forgot to order sweet potatoes..sorry guyz)..
My family and I gave our dad a small gathering for his 60th birthday,..It was a sucess..Thanks to my brother, my sister, my mom and my daugther Des for helping me plan this birthday for my dad...We had a great time.. Some couldn't make it... Prior engagement, working and other parties...But what's important is ... To see the smile on my dad's face... I thank God for our dad.. He worked so hard to give us a good life.. I pray the Lord to continue to protect &blessed
him all the days of his life and that he may live a long healthy life.
Well, i gotta go now.. My hubby and my daugther are waiting for me .. Destiny has a parents conference meeting at 6:30 tonite.. I told my hubby that he doesn't have to go but so far hes the one that doesn't want to miss this... lolz.. He hasn't miss one so far... Oh well, i guess he also wants to hear and see whats going on at school... He probably doesn't want to hear it from me...lolz.. He knows that Im not detailed when it comes to telling story..... k.. vavoo.. God Bless You All!
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But He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly in my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
2 Corinthians 12:9
The Thought
Do you really believe this verse? Do you really believe that God's power is most displayed, not in our strength, but in our weakness? Do you believe that His strength begins where yours ends? If so, do you live like it? Why do we spend our days trying desperately to bolster our strength and aptitude rather than desperately seeking God? We rely on coffee, vacations, and college degrees, while our Bibles sit on our shelves and our faith grows weak. As long as we try to be self-sufficient and self-reliant, we will never experience the joyful peace that comes from relying on Christ.
The Prayer
Lord, Forgive me for my pride that makes me act I don't need You. Jesus, I need Your grace for my every breath; teach me to rely on You for the strength to get through each day. Draw me to Your Word, push me to my knees, and bring me to the end of my rope so that I can fall into Your arms.
But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called
"Today," lest any one of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.
Hebrews 3:13
Some clever observer has described the way family members often drift
apart as "the seven stages of the married cold." The pattern can be
illustrated by tracing the reaction of a husband to his wife's cold
symptoms during seven years of marriage:
The first year-"Sugar Dumpling, I'm worried about my baby girl. You have
a bad sniffle, and there's no telling about these things with all this
strep around. I'm putting you in the hospital for a general checkup and
rest."
Year two-"Listen, Darling, I don't like the sound of that cough. I'll
bathe the kids and put them down. You just lie down while I get the car
nice and warm."
Year three-"Feeling a little punk are you, Hon? Maybe you'd better lie
down and rest. I'll bring you something to eat. Do we have any soup?"
Year four-"Look, Dear, be sensible. After you feed the kids and wash the
dishes, you'd better hit the sack."
Year five-"You don't sound so good. Why don't you get yourself a couple
of aspirin?"
Year six-"If you'd just gargle or something instead of sitting around
barking like a seal, I'd appreciate it!"
Year seven-"For Pete's sake, stop sneezing! What are you trying to do,
give me pneumonia?"
While we may smile at this imaginary degeneration of concern, it's all
too real in many marriage relationships. The pattern is in sharp
contrast with our text, which calls for daily encouragement that keeps
relationships warm and alive, rather than steady discouragement that can
only harden hearts.
It is important for you to make this atmosphere of support and
encouragement a foundation of your marriage. Marriage can rob your
relationship of intimacy and excitement. Why not decide today to find a
fresh way to encourage your spouse.
Discuss: Do the ways you and your mate express concern for each other's
troubles differ now from when you were first married? Are some of these
changes natural and appropriate? Do others foster isolation?
Pray: That the "dailiness" of family life and its increasing familiarity
will serve to draw your family closer instead of leading to
indifference.
Morning everyone! Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend
Let me just blog before I get busy bee here at work..lolzz
Friday
--- After work I went home and got ready...So exciting.. .. Before we went to our dinner date -- we went and visit the kids first at mommy.. Awww! we felt so bad leaving Des and Kai -- but since Kai doesn't really understand anything yet.. We had to explain to Destiny that we are going out for a date that Mommy and Daddy need some time alone *wink*..lolzzz...
- We ended up at Chilis... My appetite change for some reason... ..William ended up ordering his One Full Slab BBQ Back Ribs and I ordered my combination of Tilapia and Shrimp with some veggies....Yup! it is different to go out like that without the kids... Don't get me wrong....We love and enjoy are kids but sometimes -- You need that date alone with your partner...You know what I mean.. lolzz--- I can finally be silly and do my thang with him...ha ha ha... Sooo funny! I dont need to be all detail about it here..Right... But yah! It was fun...Since -- it was his treat... I ordered some dessert...Hmmmmm... Delicioso =).--- Left around 10:30PM.. Usually -- we should be on our way home around this time... I really didn't want to go home yet... Can't think of anything else --- ended up at this Karaoke Place ( by streamwood).. Saw some old friends... It was this guy Eric and Mayb that told us about this.. Pretty nice and decent place... My honey didn't sing but I did... ha ha ha.. -- Hmmm -- it was getting pretty late so we decided to finally go home and get the kids.... Knowing me --- I stayed up till 4am...just being goofy..I had toooo much caffeeine... Coffee and Coke combined.. Oh goodness! We had sooo much fun that we didn't want the nite to end.... Well, since we've been planning to have our date twice a month.. We plan to take turns again just like our wedding anni.. so, we'll see if we follow through. lolzz.
Saturday
-- My poor honey -- got sick....Uh Oh! Mommy, what did u do? lol.. Daddy Will is not feeling well... So he just stayed home.. He didn't go to the meeting at all.. So, I had to do it and meet up with my team and take care of some suff, filing paperworks and clean up some stuff from the construction..... Our team are sooo sweet.. They all text William after the training and said that "He must be really sick" coz hes never absent unless theres a family emergency or hes really sick....Soo cute......Anyhooo, after the office -- I went to my mom's house to get some food to bring it to my hubby......... I went to sleep and woke up around 4PM.. Got ready to go to one of my frenz babys party at Chuckee Cheese... It was fun! Always fun coz I get to see and chat with my frenz.. lolz..
After the party -- we went to get some movies.. It was Destiny's turn to pick...She got " Meet the Robinsons and How to eat Fried Worms"... Then we went to get some Mexican Food... Yuummy! Went home, watch the movie, ate and prepared the Praise and Worship Song for the next day.....
Sunday
--- We woke up late.. Yikkes! Sorry Lord! no excuse...Got to church almost 10AM.. Thanks to Brother Martin -- He got there almost 9AM and he was almost done setting up the instrument.. Sis Irish had an emergency and didn't get to go to church... She had to be with Pastor Renato.. He ran out of medicine and started feeling numbness in his finger.. Please include him in your prayer..
It was a great service today -God is always good.... My sister Marge's prayer brought tears to my eyes. Bro.Gerry's sermon today was so good.... I know that God was there the whole time. God speak to his heart once again. I thank God everyday for using ordinary people like him. May God continue to give him the strenght and wisdom to preach HIS word.
We stayed at church till 3PM.----William wanted to have his coffee-- so before we went home -- we went to Dunkin Donuts and just hang out there.. Kalea was eating her munckins, William was having his Large French Vanilla coffee, Des was having her white chocolate and muah having my sweet Dunkanccino.....But man! I thought coffee would help me stay up. I was still sleepy -- I think because the weather was soo gloomy and i just wanted to stay in bed... -- Finally home sweet home.... We watched the other movies -- went to sleep at 5PM -- woke up around 630PM.. Cooked some dinner--- and around 10PM..Kids finally went to sleep and I made my TGIF drink ( Aileen's famous drink)...lolzz.. Yummy!!! ---- do you still want me to go on-- lolzz..--- It was a good night sleep again....... bwhahahahahhaahah... Sure both my hunny and I had fun... Great weekend!!! Thank you Lord for giving us this opportunity to relax, enjoy and reminisce.....
can't upload the photos here... just check out the photo on my site..also, sooo sorry -- not that much pictures taken over the weekend.. I have to download it still.. http://picasaweb.google.com/SantosFamily2007/Nov9And10
K -- gotta get back to work.... Enjoy the rest of your week and Keep them beautiful SMILEZ going.. =)
God Bless!
November 1, 2007
By Melanie Chitwood
"It's useless to rise early and got to bed late, and work your worried fingers to the bone. Don't you know he enjoys giving rest to those he loves? Psalm 127:2 (MSG)
Devotion:
Many women today share a few common denominators: we're busy, we're tired, and we need some breathing room! We have jobs outside the home and in. Husbands need meals, romance, clean laundry, and more romance. Kids have play-dates, sports, church activities, and homework. We volunteer at the school, run carpools, clean the kitchen, walk the dog, do laundry, squeeze in a walk - and on and on our list continues. Whew!
Ladies, we cannot do it all. The good news is that we were never intended to do it all. Today you have permission to say "no." For some of us that comes easily. However, for many of us women, whom God designed to be givers and nurturers, this word does not come out of our mouths very easily.
Here's one practical way I've learned to say "no." I ask myself, What are my priorities? I have two levels of priorities. The first level includes God, my husband, my children, and the home front. This level is set in stone. The second level of priorities includes ministry, friends, and exercise, and this level of priorities has more variation for me. Taken together, these priorities are my compass, helping to guide me to a "yes" or "no" when considering adding another activity to my life.
Let's see how this works in real life. Last year I was asked to teach a women's Bible study at my church. Now, at first glance, this seems like an automatic "yes." After all, teaching Bible study is a good thing! However, I took the time to pray, and God very clearly showed me it was not the right time to add this commitment to my life. Looking back my family and I were incredibly busy last year in some ways I hadn't anticipated. I see clearly how saying "no" was the right answer at that time.
In a sense I have to give myself permission to say "no" because for most of my life I've said "yes" when deep down inside I've wanted to say "no." Here are two practical guidelines to help you learn how to say "no." First, if you immediately know you don't want to do something, just go ahead and turn it down by saying something such as, "Thank you so much for asking, but I just cannot make that commitment right now." The next guideline -- pray! If you're asked to do something and you really want more time to consider the situation, be honest by responding, "Let me take some time to pray and I'll give you an answer in a week." Then really pray and listen to God's leading!
Take a deep breath and say it aloud -- no. Now breathe again, sit down for ten minutes with a cup of coffee and enjoy the breathing room you've created for yourself.
Dear Lord, You show me by Your example of resting on the seventh day of creation that I, too, need rest. Show me your priorities for my life. I pray that they align with Your will for me. Help me to say no to the things that appear good but might take me away from the better choices You have for me. Lord, I pray that I will have breathing room in my life, times to be refreshed and moments of quiet closeness with You. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
TAKEN AT THE OFFICE -- SURPRISE 
CAKE MADE BY MY FATHER IN LAW
TAKEN AT CHURCH TODAY
Our last stop-- My friend from High School ( Marisel baby's first bday)
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future. --Jeremiah 29:11
Don't give up.....
One day I decided to quit...
I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality... I wanted to quit my life.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
"God", I asked, "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"
His answer surprised me...
"Look around", He said. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"
"Yes", I replied.
"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them.
I gave them light.
I gave them water.
The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor.
Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said.
"In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed.
But I would not quit.
In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would
not quit." He said.
"Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared
to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant...But just 6
months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive.
I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."
He asked me. "Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots".
"I would not quit on the bamboo.
I will never quit on you."
"Don't compare yourself to others."
He said.
"The bamboo had different Purpose than the fern.
Yet they both make the forest beautiful."
"Your time will come", God said to me.
"You will rise high"
"How high should I rise?"
I asked.
"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.
"As high as it can?" I questioned.
"Yes." He said, "Give me glory by rising as high as you can."
I left the forest and brought back this story.
I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you.
Never, Never, Never Give up.
For the Christian Prayer is not an option but an opportunity.
Don't tell the Lord how big the problem is,
tell the problem how Great the Lord is!
Heavens door opened this morning, God asked me... My CHILD...
what can I do for you?" and I said "Protect and bless the one reading this message.
God smiled and answered ... "request granted ............
This message is now in your hands.
What will YOU do with it?
send this to family and friends so that they too will have their
lives in God's hands
You never know when GOD is going to bless you!! Good things happen when you least expect them to !!!!!!!!
Happy Monday! – Yup! that's what I love about my best friend. When she tell her story ( very detailed.. Man! I tell yah and I love it.. ) and here I am totally opposite of my dear best friend. It’s hard for me to be detailed. Lol… But don't worry I’ll get to the story. Hmmmm, I think.
I really didn’t do much this weekend but another family gathering at my Uncle’s house. It was nice. I sang all night with my sister and ate soooo much food. So that was fun. While my brother and my dad doing their own thing outside with the rest of the guyz
Sunday – Right after church Love and her family went to meet up with us at my mom’s house to drop off some fresh veggies from their garden. She said more to come. So looking forward to that. =) …
Been busy bee re-doing stuff at the office… Yesterday was fun because I was singing for good one hour and dancing while moving stuff. Destiny at first was getting annoyed because I was being so loud (singing and dancing) but later on she started being goofy too and we did our Praise and Worship together….They both know how I am and I guess you can say that's one of the reason my hubby fell in love with me..hahahah..The funny part was when we were at wal-mart. I was singing while buying some stuff and people were just looking at me and I thought William was gonna stop me but no can do and joined me instead..hahahha Hmmm for some of you, you all know I am. You know I can be sooooo hyper and can't stop me especially if I'm in the mood… lolzz. We didn’t really finish last night ‘coz we had to pick up Kai… But before we went home. We went to blockbuster to rent some movies. It was my honey’s turn to pick movie this time then we had dinner at my parent’s house. Yiikkees! My sister caught me wearing her shirt so she chased me around…. lolz. I just love having her as my cute little sister…
Finally – Home sweet home – we started our Give Up the Past With a Spiritual Worry/Change Jar…
This is something that we talked about yesterday as a family…something to start in our home…. Isaiah 43:18, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” Whenever we dwell on negative things from the past, we place our small note here (or however much we can afford) in the jar. And we will continually ask God to change our heart, mind and feelings toward the past. We will give God the glory for changing the way we think about the past. And we will ask God to help us avoid worrying about the future, too. 
We also started our Table Talk but I’ll talk about that later… Right now – must get back to work. My boss is about to come and yiikess – I don’t’ want to get in trouble now…
Pictures --Uhhmm just go to my http://picasaweb.google.com/SantosFamily2007
( more pictures later..still have to upload it... )
Okay – Enjoy your day now with a BIG BIG SMILE =)
Hi,
I'm writing to you to ask for your support in a very special cause.
This year, I'll be taking part in the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation's Walk to Cure Diabetes along with a half-million other walkers across the country. I am walking for my friend's daughter Gina Lobello. Gina was diagnosed with Juvenile Diabetes last year just shy of her 2nd birthday. Our goal: To raise $90 million to help fund research for a cure for type 1 diabetes and its complications.
Type 1, or juvenile, diabetes, is a devastating, often deadly disease that affects millions of people--a large and growing percentage of them children.
Many people think type 1 diabetes can be controlled by insulin. While insulin does keep people with type 1 diabetes alive, it is NOT a cure. Aside from the daily challenges of living with type 1 diabetes, there are many severe, often fatal, complications caused by the disease.
That's the bad news... and yes, it's pretty bad.
The good news, though, is that a cure for type 1 diabetes is within reach. In fact, JDRF funding and leadership is associated with most major scientific breakthroughs in type 1 diabetes research to date. And JDRF funds a major portion of all type 1 diabetes research worldwide, more than any other charity.
I'm writing to ask for your support because now more than ever, EACH of us can be a part of bringing about a cure. Each of us can make a real difference
Won't you please give to JDRF as generously as you're able?
Together, we can make the cure a reality.
Thank you for your support and we look forward to seeing you this day
Charisma Santos
Please visit my Walk Web page if you would like to donate online or see how close I am to reaching my personal goal:
http://walk.jdrf.org/walker.cfm?id=86759964 ">
The Verse
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul.
Psalm 23:1-2a
The Thought
God is the God of comfort. He is our hiding place, our Rock and Refuge, our shelter in storms, our protection in trial. He is waiting to shelter us under His wing, hold us in His arms, and surround us with His love. In fire and water, He is there. In the trials that always come our way, He is there. When God allows things into our lives to refine us through fire and bring us to Himself, He is still there with us through the testing. But how do we find this comfort in adversity? For many of us, we have not felt the touch of God in tragedy. What is wrong? I think that our problem is not that God is not here, for we know that He is always here. Our problem is that we aren't letting Him do what He wants to. Our worry is not just what God wants to remove; our worry is what is keeping God from giving us peace. Worry can be defined as a lack of faith in God. Trust Him- He knows what He is doing. Seek after Him- that's what He wants you to do. Love Him- He wants you to experience His love. And about all, pray. Pray, pray, pray. The worse life gets, the more you need to pray.
The Prayer
Holy Spirit, Restore my soul. You are the only One who can give me peace when the world falls apart. Rain down on me Your soothing comfort; lead me beside still waters. Let me rest in the assurance of Your promises, and be satisfied and content in Your love.
Be Blessed! Be Encouraged!
Hello readers ---please know that I blog most of the time at my friends blog (lovely) http://www.walk2remember.com/ -- so you can also go there..
well -- where do i begin...Friday-had lunch with my hubby and the kids at the office. My honey made lunch for all of us then I went back to work... Friday afternoon , i took my mom and the kids to my Folk Dance practice in Naperville... .. My Gosh! Can i just tell you that I was sore after the practice but It was so much fun. We did nothing but laugh. We practiced for 4hours. We are doing this for one of our convention coming up. (Cultural Dance Event). At first, we tried tinikling (bamboo dance) and they had me tried it first.. Oh man! I thought i was gonna go home without a leg..So then, we also tried Pandango. This one was easy-- that's only if you are okay to go home with no hair.. lolz ( just kidding). But yah, we all agreed on this one and we did good so far.. Next practice is tomorrow and the Saturday. Looking forward to it. Saturday -- we just went to Family party and did some errands for father's day. Sunday, we had a good service but before the service there was man that walked in our church and asking for help. He said that he needed a ride to Central and Belmont. We asked him if he can stay for service but he said that he needed to get home and get his medicine. So Martin and my hubby went to drop him off and gave him money to buy his medicine. After the service, I went to stop by for few minutes at Marge's house. She's helping me with some stuff for my little one's dedication this Sunday. After the service, we just went home.. My younger sister Christine wanted to go out to eat for Father's day but instead she ( for the first time..woooohooo)..went groceries with my daughter Destiny. I made a list for her to buy and she went and used her own money. So we just bbq at home with my parents. Simple but fun =) ....Ayyy, my sister's been coming to my house mostly everynite now for the past months and just hanging out which I don't mind at all but man!everynight..Oh goodness!..we been borrowing each other clothes.. ( I love it! ) ... Well, I guess for the next 3 wks will be busy bee for us.. Looking forwards to all the events coming up and hope to see all of you there..
Here's the update for our 2nd Outreach Church Picnic -- We already got the place for August 25...More information will follow. Please continue to pray for us that whatever we do or plan to help others is all in God's hand. We do it for the Glory of God.
Yesterday when I came home from work -- my daughter Destiny came up to me and showed me the letter she received from her Dad ( William) ... I was almost in tears when I read his letter to her...We can't thank God enough for giving us such a wonderful husband, friends, brother and father to everyone. I love you honey =)
And lastly, congrats to Destiny for hitting the high honor on your last quarter. We are so proud of you. We love you!
Have a good day everyone!
May God’s Light forever shine in your heart and upon you and yours! SMILE
Finally, I am now US Citizen lolzz.. Gosh! After how many years... That's what you call ( proscastinator)...Thank you Lord =) .. Anyways, my hubby and I had a great time yesterday... Not only we got free parking ticket but we were goofing around the whole time ( it started coz I had to do number 2..hahhaha) and I told him to stay there and don't let anyone take my spot and to text me when the line is moving..ha ha ha... I was getting so sleepy coz the line was too long...I had my DD already but still sleepy..... Ha ha ha .. My Oath Ceremony wast at 8AM.. So, we had to wake up at 5Am.. Got ready. We went to drop off Des at mommy, so she can get ready for school and good thing the school bus also stop there. Then we went to drop off Kai at my in laws then went straight to downtown... But my Oath was short--- We got out of there around 930Am but you know how I am --- I was still chatting with some people I met....N-ewayz, gots to go for now... Enjoy the rest of your day...And I will see some of you tomorrow and the rest on Sunday ( Lia's dedication..)
Oh and let me introduce you Funmi ( she's from Nigeria).. She's really nice.. We were talking for 2 hours. lolz.. She works at St. Mary's.. Oh man! she can talk.. But very nice lady.. She had no camera -- So i told her if she don't mind. I will send her a copy of our pictures.
A time to celebrate the beauty, the gift and the blessing of enduring love.
Yesterday we celebrated our 3rd year wedding anniversary and it was also our 8 yrs being together. How time flies?? Actually, this year was my turn to plan. We try to take turns every year. We didn't really do something big this year but it was very special of what we did yesterday. Right after work , I went groceries and I called Destiny and told her that I will be cooking menudo ( William's favorite dish). Well, for the filipinos ( that's not easy to cook).. Too many ingredients. So, when I got home I told him that I have my gift for him. But he asked me if he can help me.. I said No, but he said that he wants to be part of it..So he can take the credit..lolzz.....So then, he started cutting and peeling the veggies and I started cooking and putting the ingredients to the pot... We were thinking if we should his mom and my mom to ask for help but we both said " No, let's do William and Charisma's style"... So, we were both reading the filipino recipe.. And waited for almost an hour just to make sure that the pork is tender... I was doing the tasting and William will do the 2nd tasting just to make sure also......lolzzz.. My mom kept calling and since she knows that it was our anniversary..I told her that " Mom, if i give you some-- that means-- its good"..if not, then don't ask anymore..lolz.. Well, guess what???? It was deliciosoooo... So my honey and Des went to drop off some menudo to my mother dear and she said that it was good except it needed more salt or fish sauce... But it was good!!!! Yipppeee......They both came back and my hunny took a shower before dinner so we can have our dessert after.. lolz.... Oh before I forget... The night before our anniversay- he gave me his gift, a simple letter and we both said our prayers for each other before we had our dinner...He always does! I think for the past eight years now.. He never once forget to give me short or long letter... hmmm, wish i can share it with you of what he wrote but it was very sweet and touching.. Then around 7:30PM.....Tin's been bugging me if she can come over and it's hard for the past months ( since she broke up with her ex)..She's been going to my house and just hang out.. Which i don't mind because Tin's fun to be with...She does nothing but laugh at you....ha ha ha ha....So she stayed till 11:30PM...
Anyways, sorry haven't been blogging..Been kinda busy -- Fun busy--i may say =) -- actually- been visiting some old friends and organizing some events. Lords willing - it'll be done before we leave for the cruise.
Here are some pictures from yesterday --- before and after menudo... Also, pics from my sis' graduation... So proud of her..=)
Thank you Lord for all the blessings. But most of all Thank you Lord for blessing me with a wonderful husband and two beautiful girls that balances me everday of our life. 
Vavooski ...Don't forget them beautiful smilez going..
Key Verse:1 John 4:11-12, "Since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us." (NIV)
Devotion: When you're with the ones you love, do you love the ones you're with? I am embarrassed to admit it, but there are times when I'm with my family, and my mind is somewhere else getting something done! I realized this one night while we were all watching a movie. It looked like we were spending quality time together as a family. I was there physically, but I was returning phone calls and emails mentally. I glanced at the clock to see how many hours before bedtime when I could get some work done, and noticed the silhouette of my son's face. I was struck by how grown up he looked. How quickly ten years had passed! It made me think, it won't be long before he's counting down the hours until I go to bed, so he can instant message or get on the phone with his friends. That's when I recognized the gift of being with the ones I love and loving the ones I'm with, while they're still with me.Jesus knew His time with the ones He loved was limited. He valued the years He had here and was very intentional about loving each and every person He was with. Jesus didn't see people's requests for His attention or time as interruptions, but welcomed them as invitations. I am a type-A, get-it-done, kind of girl. "Being" instead of "doing" is tough for me. The only hope I have is to take my struggle to God and ask Him to help me. He made me this way and He's the only one who can make me more like Him. Through His Word, He's challenged me to slow down and spend more time being with my husband and my children. He knows how easily I can allow my time with them to get crowded out by my need to "do" things. He has helped me to see them as the highest priorities in my life.What about you? How often are you really with the ones you love…no agendas, no errands, no planning…just being? How often do you laugh together, watch movies together, or go out for ice cream? There are a few things I do to help me cherish the time I have with the ones I love. First, I look into their faces and remember what they used to look like. That helps me grasp how quickly time passes. Second, I imagine a day they may not be here; the day they might live in another State with their own family; the day I will wait for them to call and tell me what they have been doing since we last talked. Third, I think back to what life was like without them. That jolts my memory, and makes me so grateful for the time God has given me with them. And lastly, I remind myself daily that my tasks and "to do lists" will always be here, but the ones I love may not. My prayer is that you will join me in slowing down to be with the ones you love and love the ones you are with!
My Prayer for Today:Lord, thank you for the people you have given me to love - even when they are hard to love, even when I feel like I don't have enough time to enjoy them. Help me to slow down and see them through your eyes. Help me to see them as the greatest gifts I will ever be given. Remind me daily that the only thing that will last for eternity is my relationship with you and my relationships with others. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Plan a date with someone you love (your child, spouse, parents or best friend).Talk about the things and people they care about most. Really listen and enjoy them.If you get distracted by things you need to do, imagine this is the last time you will be with them and make it your best ever!
Parenting
The Essential Ingredients of a Godly Home Matthew 10:11-13 says, “Now whatever city or town you enter, inquire who in it is worthy, and stay there till you go out. And when you go into a household, greet it. If the household is worthy, let your peace come upon it. But if it is not worthy, let your peace return to you.” This is how God blesses homes. Your house needs to be a house worthy of the blessing of God. So I want to give you Five Essentials to a Godly Home. 1. You need prayer in that home. In Luke 19:46 Jesus says, “My house will be a house of prayer.” Teach your children that God will answer their prayers. If God’s house is a house of prayer, yours should be one too. 2. Speak the Word in that home. Deuteronomy 6:6-9 says, “These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” 3. Make it a house of humility. James 4:6. God can bless humility. He resists the proud. 4. Make it a house of giving. Malachi 3:10 says, “Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.” 5. You need leadership in your house. Joshua 24:15 says, “As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.” Take a stand, and have leadership in that home. The Four Stages of Raising ChildrenAs you train your children in the way they should go, it’s important to understand The Four Stages of Growth in Your Children so they will grow up to hear God’s voice and make right decisions 1.Discipline Stage 0-5 years CREATE CLEAR AND VERY STRICT BOUNDARIES – no choices; you’re teaching them to yield their will to your will so they will eventually be able to yield to God’s will.WHEN YOU’RE SPEAKING TO THEM EXPECT A RESPONSE – otherwise you’re teaching them not to have regard for your commands. Your children will rise to the level of your expectation. One of the reasons God chose Abraham was because “he will command his children,” Genesis 18:19 says.MAKE YOUR INSTRUCTION CLEAR – Colossians 3:21 says don’t exasperate your children. Warn them that the command is coming. “In 5 minutes, I’m going to call you and I want you to be finished…”2. Training stage 6-12 yearsThis is where you are training your children to be young adults. They are pretending to be in that role. Give them some grace. Give them more choices. For example, “Here are 3 choices, but remember when you make a decision, you’re not going to change it.” Teach them to make their bed and clean their room. Now let them do it. Check it. Show them where they need to improve. 3. Coaching stage 13-19 yearsDuring this stage, you let them be the quarterback of their life. You’re the coach, but you let them play. You’re not driving them. They drive. You coach. You call some plays, but let them call some. When they make a decision, you ask “So what did you decide?” Then you say, “let me give you some pros and cons about that…” You still give them your advice. 4. Fellowship stage (friendship)You’ve done your job. You give advice only when they ask for it. You can’t try to be their friend during the Discipline and Training stages. This is the time you can be their friend, when you’ve done your job correctly in the earlier stages. It’s tragic if we don’t honor the Discipline stage. It affects the rest of their life and yours too. Now that you have these practical stages of how to teach your children as they mature, remember what sets it all up is when your house has the 5 Essentials for the Blessing of God. God will bless and honor you as you honor Him and put Him first in your home.
Just thought of sharing you this one I read this morning.. It will help all of us ..Not only us parents but everybody who needs this..
FOCUS ON THE FAMILY --
http://www.focusonthefamily.org/
Be Your Teen’s Role ModelWhat is a role model?
When we say someone serves as a role model, we mean the individual is someone others admire or try to emulate. For teenagers this often means the person is someone they want to be like — whether it’s because of the person’s lifestyle, athletic prowess or the attitudes the person shows.
Some of those role models are celebrities out of your teen’s reach (athletes and movie stars), while others are in his or her own circle of influence (youth ministers, teachers and other parents). What do those people have that make them attractive to your teen?
What teens crave
Why do teens look up to the other adults in their lives? Whether or not we like it, parents are sometimes considered the enemy. Teenagers might see their moms and dads as judgmental and unconcerned about their lives. Two qualities, therefore, are crucial to being a role model.
1. A role model is understanding, not condescending.
When 13-year-old Jenny seemed especially upset about a boy not liking her at school, her father said, “That’s nothing to worry about. You’re too young to even think about boys.” When the dad spoke those words, he was telling Jenny that her concerns were not important. Yet it was serious in her 13-year-old world. Role models try to connect with a teen to understand what he or she is going through. They do so without belittling the teen’s problems or downplaying the triumphs.
2. A role model is a friend but also a leader. We often think that to be a role model to our teenager we must know the name of every new movie or be able to use teenage slang. That’s not necessarily true.
While most role models understand the teen’s life and are friendly, they also take on a leadership role with them. Role models provide answers, insight or suggestions about the teen’s struggles — oftentimes from their own experiences.
How parents can be good role models
• Be available. Let your teenager know your door is always open. While your son or daughter may not beat down your door every time he or she has a question, your teen is more likely to do so when you have left that door open.
Say phrases such as “I’m always here for you” or “I’d love to hear about your day.” Don’t apply pressure, but let your teen know you are there for him or her.
• Listen to your teen. Being available to your teenager does not mean listening with one ear and then giving a long string of advice. Listen to your teen first, then ask follow-up questions. Don’t jump in with advice (even when you clearly see what should be done). Instead, proceed slowly, asking your teen what he or she thinks should be done.
Being a role model to your teenager may seem like an impossible undertaking. But realize that your young person needs someone just like you — someone who loves him or her and who can point in the right direction.
“Kati, it is broken, surely you don’t want that one,” said my bewildered husband, while we were out one Good Friday evening a few years ago.
We had been walking around downtown after dinner to do some window shopping. Wandering into a little shop called “Barouke,” I spotted this hand- carved wooden cup. I had been on the hunt for a special cup that our family could use just for communion.
It was a fairly simple design made from Lignum Vitae, which according to its little tag, happens to be the hardest and most dense wood in the world. I thought it would be a very fitting cup for my wonderful, stubborn family. It has also been called “the Wood of Life” for its pharmaceutical values. What better communion cup could you ask for than one made from the Wood of Life that was found “broken” on Good Friday?
This is My body
Given for you
This is the cup that holds the blood
Of a new covenant
This is forgiveness,
Simple and True
This is the way
That I have made for you
Before you eat
Before you drink
Take a long look inside
And tell Me what you see
Do this in remembrance of me.
Will you remember what He did for you today? Will you slow down long enough to thank Him? Will you accept His forgiveness? I will.
Take the time to read the Easter story today from the Bible, any gospel – Matthew, Mark, Luke or John - that you choose.
Reflections:
How often do you stop to think about what the Lord has gone through to make sure that you are with Him in Heaven?
Good Morning friends, please allow me to share you this daily devotional I received this morning..I know that many of us can relate to this story. I know I am =). See my husband always say Good Morning to us and I remember one time when when my older daughter forgot to say "Good Morning" to her Dad. So then I told her to go and say sorry. But before she went...She told me that "Mom,how come you tell me to say sorry when you always forget to say Good Morning to Dad too.Oh my! I felt so ashamed and I prayed right away and asked for forgiveness and to help me be a better person and be a good example to my children. I then went to talk to my hubby and we had our talk..See, God understand that we are not perfect but we can always try to be a better person. Remember that our kids are not only smart but are always watching their parents. But remember this one, before we can teach our children God's ways, we first build a right relationship with them, one in which God's truth will grow and flourish in the hearts of our children. Our teaching and example just demonstrate to them a way of life they will want to emulate, rather than a burden imposed on them. Here you go and hope you enjoy reading this.. BE BLESSED!
The Mom in the Mirror
By Karen Ehman
“However, … the wife must respect her husband.” Ephesians 5:33 (NIV)
Devotion:
I’ll never forget the day I saw myself in that mirror. Even though over a decade of time has passed since I caught the glimpse, the image is still vivid. And I’m sorry to say that it wasn’t a pretty one. My then six-year-old daughter and her three-year-old brother were playing together in their room. I strolled down the hall to check on the baby who was due up from his nap soon. It was then that I saw it.
As I approached the room where my kids were playing, I heard Mackenzie’s voice pipe up as she expressed to Mitchell her immense displeasure. You see, he was not stacking the colorful, snap-together, plastic blocks in a manner that suited her. As I neared the door I heard her sharply declare “No, Mitchell. Not that way! Oh, just give it to me! Anybody with a brain knows they go like this, not like that. Can’t you ever do anything right?” Her words, though unkind, weren’t the real issue. What bothered me most was that they were spoken with a caustic, condescending tone. I was not going to let her get away with it.
I stepped into the room and with classic mom form - hand on hip, finger pointed, throwing the child’s middle name in for emphasis???I gave it to her. “Mackenzie Leith Ehman! Young lady, I don’t ever want to hear you talk like that to your brother again!” Without even looking up from her pile of blocks, she quickly and calmly retorted. “Why not, Mama? You talk like that to Daddy all the time.”
Ouch! My kids often serve as a painstakingly honest mirror when it comes to my attitudes and actions. The offense my daughter had committed that day paled in comparison to what I feared my kids were witnessing in our home as they saw their mom interact with their dad in a disrespectful manner. I cried and prayed and cried some more. I told my husband what had transpired. I then told my moms’ Bible study group. Turns out I wasn’t the only mom who had a little mirror in their house. Many of us had seen ourselves vividly reflected through the voices and actions of our offspring. We vowed together to keep our words and tones in check. Of course, we found out this is often easier said than done.
The word “respect” in today’s verse can be one we wives assume we are obeying because we have a limited view of its true meaning. A quick reading of this verse in the Amplified Version of the Bible sheds a deeper light. Its parenthetical description of the word “respect” reads, “that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly.” Whew! No wonder God wants marriage to last a lifetime. It might take us women a lifetime to learn to exhibit all those qualities!
It’s been a long time since I spied my ugly self in that mirror that day. I still struggle at times with a sharp tongue, often saying things in jest that in reality are unkind. And my kids now reserve the right to call me on the carpet for such behavior. We moms need to remind ourselves that there are little and not so little eyes watching, and in many cases imitating what they see. What’s in your mirror?
Dear Lord, Forgive me for the times I have used my words, attitudes and actions as weapons of disrespect toward my husband. Empower and enable me to live a life that accurately reflects what a godly wife should be. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Application Steps:
Pay close attention to your words and tone this week as you interact with your husband. What would you see if you were videotaped and then had to watch a playback of how you speak to him? Would others be able to tell from your encounters that you respect your spouse?
For the brave at heart only: Ask your children to be honest with you. Question them about what they observe when you speak to your husband. Is there anything they think you should clean up? What grade would they give you when it comes to how you treat their father? Tell them that you are trying to obey the Bible by showing dad respect. You just need a little report card from them to know how you are doing and to enable you to make the necessary changes.
Reflections:
Name a wife who gets a good grade in this subject. What is different about her? What does she do, and not do, that makes her a good example?
Ask yourself, “Is there one person who would be a good fit to hold me accountable in this area?” Pick someone who will be honest with you and who cares enough about you and your marriage to tell you the truth and point you to God. Contact her to see if she’d be willing to check in with you periodically to inquire how you are doing.
Enjoy the rest of your SUNNY AND SMILEY DAY
Buenas Nochez Friends,
Hope everyone had a blessed weekend! Well, i did.... Friday nite-- i got to hang out with my girls. Thanks to my best friend Lovely, she was able to get everyone together there.. She had to call them individually so that they all would go.. See, the last time we all got together was last Christmas. So, everyone was so happy when they all got to Chilis. One of our favorite place to go for dinner..lolz. We got in trouble too cuz I we were so loud.. And yes! I admit...I am first to say that I am guilty..lolzz.. My hubby, my daugther Destiny, our friend Martin and Matthew stopped by at Chilis to get my daugther's Ice Skate.. They went Ice skating that nite... My friend Marge and I went to meet up with them after Chilis. We all went home right after. Went to pick up my lil one Kalea at my mom's house. We came home and we just relax and went to sleep early to get ready for our Local convention the next day ( Saturday).
Saturday ---- we got ready to go to Midwest Conference Center ( Northlake Il). It was an awesome event. I thank God everyday for our business. Not only we helped people with their financial plan but also we are building our friendship with our business partners and clients. But most importantly, we can minister to them and able to share our Life with Jesus. My husband and I along with my daughter Destiny and soon Kalea love meeting new people everyday. It makes us realize that wherever you go... You can meet new friends everyday.. =) . After the event-- we went to Portillos and had lunch.. Then, our last stopped - we went to Marge's house for her Party Lite show... It was fun!!! As always, I had to joke around..lolzzz. That is always been part of me and will never go away...ha ha ha.. Yup! i didn't buy anything..But I got the catalog.. and hopefully..I'll order when I feel like it...lolzzz... Ayayyayyay! I have to get a house first-- if i buy those candles.. I don't have anymore room in my house..lolzz.. That was my Saturday nite..And finally went home and my honey was already home... Just watched movie and finally went to sleep....
Sunday - got ready for the church! Thank God for this morning...Nice Sunny Weather.. My Kai Kai wanted to play all day.. And today I discover her beautiful smile...ha ha... If you are about to take her picture..No matter what she's doing..Crying or playing..>She will stop and pose and smile for you....ha ha ha ha.. Soooo cute! We went to visit her grandparents ( dad side) in Chicago.. Dad and I played basketball.. After that we stopped by at the office... Kai and I fell asleep while Destiny was helping dad putting his song book ( for church ) in order.. Then when Kai and woke up , we all went to eat at Hong Ning ( Filipino Chinese restaurant).. .. We didn't want to go home yet cuz the weather was so beautiful- so we decide to hang out at the parking lot of Mc Donald for few minutes and just talk and enjoy the weather.. Mom and Dad stopped by at the house right after their date.... That was our weekend! Thank you, Thank you Lord for a wonderful weekend and Thank you lord for a wonderful friends and Thank you Lord for always being there with us..
Goodnite...
Check out our pictures this last weekend..Go to the last page to see the latest. Thanks
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Monday, March 05, 2007
Rejection and Forgiveness - Part I
By Tracie Miles Galatians 1:10, “Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.” (NIV)Rejection is something we all face in life. Rejection comes in many forms – affairs or divorce, supervisors who can’t be pleased, teenage rebellion, being turned down for a job, shut out from a club or sorority, or the betrayal of a friend. Although this list is not exhaustive, you get the idea. These things have one thing in common - they are painful, and very damaging to our self-esteem.In the midst of rejection, we are so focused on ourselves that it is difficult to pull away from the hurt and think clearly or rationally. Our thoughts are often, How could that person have done/said that to me? Do they know how much I have done for them? Have they taken a hard look at themselves? We all share these thoughts when we are consumed with despair caused by hurtful words or actions from others.There are three basic truths in handling rejection:Truth #1: Understand that you are made in the image of God. We are told in Genesis 1:27 that God created man in His image. Men and women are God’s most unique works of art, His masterpieces! There is no one more valuable and precious than the children of God. Remember who you are in Christ and choose to see yourself through God’s eyes.Truth #2: Rejection is only destructive when we internalize it, allowing it to creep into our personal belief system. Since we cannot control what other people think, we have no control over whether or not people approve of us. We are only in control of our own attitudes and beliefs. If we allow the opinions of others to affect the opinions we have of ourselves, then we are allowing those who hurt us to control our thoughts. If we keep our thoughts focused on how much God loves us, we won’t dwell on the opinions of others.Truth #3: We can combat the destructive forces of rejection by understanding our position in Christ. We are God’s most prized possessions! Spend time focusing on who we matter to instead of who we don’t. We are told through out the first book of Peter that we are chosen, royal, holy, accepted, and instruments for God’s work. Our position is one of royalty, and we are each a significant instrument in God’s spiritual orchestra.During painful times in our life, we can triumph if we remember that God is our strength. God is a forgiving God, and He desires for His children to be forgiving as well. He is sufficient to get us through our problems. He is our Almighty Redeemer. We do not need the world’s approval, and we will never be able to please everyone. We only need the approval of God. God is waiting to wash our souls with His grace and mercy to help us through any situation, but first we must have our spiritual eyes and ears open to hear His loving, comforting voice.Dear Lord, I pray for Your wisdom on how to deal with situations in which I feel hurt, rejected, and worthless. Fill me with Your love so that I can forgive others. Help me remember that Your approval and acceptance is all I need. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.Related Resources:The Confident Woman by Anabel GillhamDo You Know Him?Listen to Today's Radio Show Application Steps:Ask God to intervene in your situation, and help you forgive this person and mend your relationship. It may seem hopeless, but nothing is too big for God to handle.Create two lists. List 1: write down all the wonderful traits, talents and skills that God has gifted you with. List 2: write down all the people in your life who love you. Seeing all these things on paper will help relieve the pain of the person(s) who made you feel unworthy and rejected.Reflections:Unforgiveness is poison to our soul – do you need to forgive someone who has hurt you? Are there people in your life that you would do anything to gain their approval? Would your behavior change if you were only concerned with God’s approval, not that of man?Do you thank God daily for the privilege of being made in His image, and remember that you are beautifully and wonderfully made?Power Verses:Psalm 36:5, “Your love, O Lord, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies.” (NIV)1 Kings 8:50, “And forgive your people, who have sinned against you; forgive all the offenses they have committed against you, and cause their conquerors to show them mercy.” (NIV)
Buenas Noches Readers =) ..Well, it was a beautiful weekend and great weather ..Cold but sunny.. it's okay though.. We can't have it all. It was a great Saturday morning --- breakfast with my family, got ready to go to the office-- This time we had to be at Burr Ridge.. We had new team mate that just recently joined our business and had to go to training.. I thank God for our business.. And we are able to help them accomplished their dreams slowly. With God on our side-- we know that ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. He is an Awesome God! We thank God for HIS many blessings, for HIS love and HIS MERCY. And for the blessed Holy Spirit who strenghtens me day by day, leads to the path of righteousness, and gently speaks to me about the areas of my life that need to change. God is good! Thank you LORD!.... Lunch time, hang out with my team -- helped them with their license and some paperworks...Then we left the office to go to the Mall and got Kalea's earrings.. Yipppee!!! I didn't pick the November birth stone.. I kinda don't like the color.. It's light yellow.. So, we went and get the light pink..... Later afternoon, we went to meet up with my parents but they went to my brother's house to assemble my nephew's basketball thingy that he bought for the backyard.. Destiny went with them--- So, my little one Kai and I went groceries -- We came home and mommy cooked beef stew ( hmmmm, finally i made it very very tender that daddy was very impressed. He he he! Destiny and Dad came home and ate dinner.. Like I said, my hubby was very happy that I made the pork very tender that he can finally chew it this time.. Usually, when I am in a hurry even if it taste good... The beef is not tender as it did tonite... Goodness! I had to let it boil for an hour.. I gotta get pressure cooker so I don't have to wait that long. lolzz.. Right after dinner-- my daughter, Destiny and I baked our Walnut Brownies.. Hmmmm...She helped me baked it.. We made it for the church..... Then, finally the kids went to sleep and Daddy and I finally got to relax and got our stuff ready for the church.. AND MOMMY FINALLY GOT A GOOD MASSAGE FROM DADDY..lolzzz...( He always gives me good massage).. Mommy is too spoiled..Lolz...
Sunday ---- PRAISE GOD FOR ANOTHER WONDERFUL AND SUNNY DAY... We woke up around - 7Am.. Played with the kids till 8Am.. We had to take 2 cars today... Des, kai and myself went to pick up Lorelei and her daughter, Caitlyn... They went to church with us... Hopefully, I can pick her up every Sunday so they can come with us... She doesn't drive..She's also 7 months pregnant and she's very excited .. She's actually having another girl... So, help me pray for her and her family.. for a safe and easy delivery and healthy baby...We had a great sermon this morning " Prayer"..We all know that Prayer is the most powerful weapon. I thank all of you for your prayers. Let's continue to pray for one another and for everyone.
My parents are so cute.. My mom called me this morning when I was on my way to church.. They just went to their church and they had their date at Denny's.. Every Sunday is their day to date after church -- They try to do something together.... So today - they didn't waste anyday to stay at home.. They went to church and went to eat for breakfast. My mom told me that they are now qualifed for Senior Citizen breakfast.. My mom is so funny..hahhaahahah.. She wanted to get the free breakfast...lolz. After that-- they went to visit my brother and stayed there the whole day..They left around 2pm to visit my grandma then my parents went out again and ate dinner... ( he he he) My mom is so happy coz my dad is now taking her out mostly every weekend... God is soo good and so loving! Thank you Lord for my loving parents.. Btw, my grandma ( dad side) is now feeling much better.. Getting stronger everyday.. We went to visit her last week.......Finally, our last stopped today -- we went to visit my in-laws because they wanted to see Kalea -- So, we just stayed there till 7pm ..Ate dinner, Destiny was playing with her cousin MJ ( My brother in - law's son..)..William and I just ate and slept....ha ha ha ha .... So, there goes our weekend --- -- Our family are so active that we don't like staying home toooo much.. Sometimes is okay but not all the time...ha ha ha.. We like to do things all the time.. Even if it's something small just as long as we're together --- then we are fine and happy...he he he he.. . .. K-- I'll blog more later.. Okie dokie.. Hope you all had a blessed weekend!!! Love u guyz.. =)
Lord, I want to be changed, and I pray those changes will begin today. I know I can?t change myself in any way that is significant or lasting, but by the trans-forming power of Your Holy Spirit all things are possible. Grant me, according to the riches of Your glory, to be strengthened with might through Your Spirit in my inner being (Ephesians 3:16). I know that You will supply all that I need according to Your riches in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19). Help me to become separate from the world without becoming isolated from it. May Your love manifested in me be a witness of Your greatness.
